You know sometimes there’s one person who comes into your life and makes all the difference in the world. You know this and you’re sure its love. Only, they sometimes don’t see how much they really mean to you or they don’t see you. And it goes on to eat you alive, torture you, and drive you mad. You long to tell them how you feel, but know that you cant. You pray and hope and wish that someday they can be yours, only to watch them fall for someone else. You miss them when they aren’t near, you cry with them when they are sad. You make sure you are always there when they need you but still, they don’t see you.
But sometimes they do see you and your world gets so much brighter. Their smiles lights your way, through your darkest hours and yours does the same for them. Your heart skips a beat whenever they are near. The butterflies are there in your tummy, when they look at you. And you know its all worth it.
You know its love when you try to fight it, not wanting to let it consume you because you don’t wanna get hurt again. But it does, it does consume you and sometimes though all that it’s worth it and sometimes its not. But the heart wants what it wants ya’ll and no matter how hard you try, you can’t win over matters of the heart. So even if it sometimes doesn’t last and you know you’re going to get hurt it’s worth the fight because without that fight you may never know what could have been and be left with the what ifs, the should ofs, the could ofs and the would ofs and that my friends hurts so much more. So follow your heart no matter where it might lead.
~F~
Friday, February 27, 2009
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Lyrics that speak to me!
An empty room can be so deafing. The slience makes you wanna scream. It drives you crazy. I chashed away the shadows of your name and burned the picture in the frame...but it couldn't save me.....~ Nick Lachey- I can't hate you anymore.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Sending a message using art
I had to do a school project and it was a free for all using a stylist type of art. So I chose my favorite celeb couple Ellen and Porita and i used the gay pride flag and the human rights logo and formed the clothing of ellen and portia and then I used hearts, wedding rings and champagne glasses to form the background and lastly I collaged the faces of e & p onto the piece.
I think this piece goes on to show a wonderful and powerful message about Gay Marriage. Two of the most amazing people were able to share that love and that is apparent in the oringal picutre that this picture depicts. I was happy that I was able to use this picture in a piece of art that I created. Once I get it back from my Drawing professor I am considering sending it to Ellen herelf. It needs a name so if anyone wants to help me come up with one. I will be sure to credit you.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Utah lawmaker: Gays are "greatest threat to America"
Utah lawmaker: Gays are "greatest threat to America"
So Senator Chris Buttars, my morals are unanswerable? Anything goes? Really? We are the meanest buggers you have ever seen?
I’ll tell you what my morals are Mr. Buttars….
1. To respect every living thing out there
2. To teach our children of today about tolerance, and not hatred
3. To teach children that everyone is equal and should be entitled to the same rights.
4. To love, honor and cherish the person I fall in love with
5. To love my friends, family and strangers
6. Show compassion
7. Forgive
8. Respect my higher power and do right by the him or her
9. Teach Children that every living thing should be respected and that hatred is not a viable option.
10. Promote Peace and love
Those, Mr. Buttars, are my morals. And frankly I think that’s a pretty good way to live! So why not take a lesson from this so called “meanest bugger” you have ever seen and get your head out of your ass and wake up! Not many people can be as mean as people like you!!! You are the ones who threaten what America is built on, the Freedom that we all should have. You are the one who helps make America a sad place to live. Not us. We do our part, to treat everyone as the humans that we are. We spread, love, peace and respect, not the hatred you spew. So if our morals are the wrong morals then so be it, they are still 100 times better than the crap you are spewing!
~F~
So Senator Chris Buttars, my morals are unanswerable? Anything goes? Really? We are the meanest buggers you have ever seen?
I’ll tell you what my morals are Mr. Buttars….
1. To respect every living thing out there
2. To teach our children of today about tolerance, and not hatred
3. To teach children that everyone is equal and should be entitled to the same rights.
4. To love, honor and cherish the person I fall in love with
5. To love my friends, family and strangers
6. Show compassion
7. Forgive
8. Respect my higher power and do right by the him or her
9. Teach Children that every living thing should be respected and that hatred is not a viable option.
10. Promote Peace and love
Those, Mr. Buttars, are my morals. And frankly I think that’s a pretty good way to live! So why not take a lesson from this so called “meanest bugger” you have ever seen and get your head out of your ass and wake up! Not many people can be as mean as people like you!!! You are the ones who threaten what America is built on, the Freedom that we all should have. You are the one who helps make America a sad place to live. Not us. We do our part, to treat everyone as the humans that we are. We spread, love, peace and respect, not the hatred you spew. So if our morals are the wrong morals then so be it, they are still 100 times better than the crap you are spewing!
~F~
Lyrics that Stick out to me.
With desperate intentions I sit in a daze. My minds such a mess, feel lost there for days. Dancing with angels, thoughts that obesses. I'm walking in circles from this fear of regret. And I cant change anything. It's what it is, what it was and what it's always to be......~RallyCar
Thursday, February 19, 2009
A letter to AOHELL….*coughs* I mean AOL
A letter to AOHELL….*coughs* I mean AOL
So I have issues with my email account and that prompted me to write a nasty letter to AOL, only it came out a little too nasty, so I will not send it and instead post it here for your amusement!
Dear AOL Dipshits:
I have been a loyal customer to you for over 10 years and to say that you have served me well would be an absolute lie. I have encountered error after error and plenty of problems with software throughout the years. I have dealt with those issues and your morons at your customer service numbers and have put my feelings aside and have continued to stupidly subscribe to your service.
I am beyond perturbed with the latest issue because it involves my primary email account, an account which happens to be linked to EVERYTHING that involves, work, school, finance and play. It began a few months ago with the random email not sending. Sometimes I would get an error stating that it had not sent and other times I would get nothing and no response from people that I knew would respond, so when I asked those people if they had gotten my email they replied with a no. Again I was irritated to say the least, so I contacted your moronic customer service department and was given the run around for 2 hours by being transferred to “someone that could better assist me.” After a long, long continuous battle with no response I finally gave up, hung up the phone and put the matter aside.
The matter seemed to clear up for a while, my email was sending and I was not getting any errors and now it has started again, only this time not only is the mail not sending but I am getting failure of delivery notices 5 sometimes 6 days after I originally sent the email out. But here is the clinker, people ARE still getting my damned emails even though I am getting notices saying that the delivery of the email failed!! So that prompted me to say WTF and another call to your customer stupid…I mean service department was made!!
Upon calling said customer service I was given the run around, and bounced back and fourth to other areas of the service department. By this time I was dizzy and annoyed at the random transferring of my call, and the Italian side of me came out to play! Yelling ensued and I was finally put through to the head of the customer service department!
I was patched through to a man in India with a very, very strong accent, named Bob. This prompted me to laugh to myself as I know this guy’s name probably wasn’t Bob! We then proceeded to go through what my issue was and then run many checks, none of which worked. He then proceeded to tell me that I needed to restore my AOL software in which I proceeded to tell your customer service goon that this happens on every single computer that I have used. It is not a glitch on my side of the spectrum. Then he proceeded to tell me that it was most likely a spam filter issue, which I could see if I had issues with incoming mail and not outgoing. So he then proceeded to tell me to tinker with my spam filters, so I did. Nothing happened!!! Then he proceeded to tell me to try reinstalling my software anyway, so I did…..NOTHING!!! So he proceeds to tell me that they have experienced this issue before and it is usually a result of the spam filters. So what I am gathering from this situation is that spam filters filter out emails that you, yourself send to other people. Now, I thought spam filters were supposed to be filtering out crap that spammers send to you, not stuff you send out to others, which is kinda the purpose of spam filters, isn’t it? So he then proceeds to tell me that what can happen is the filters become unstable and cause glitches and that is why I was asked to restore my software. I proceeded to tell your goon, that we tried that and it didn’t work!!
Now here is what I don’t get, I know there is a bug in your software because some people who have your service have told me that they experience the same thing, now instead of dragging me through a lengthy problem solving conversation of crap, why not just admit that your software has a glitch and that it will be fixed in the next updated version?
Due to the seriousness of this issue I am seriously considering canceling my AOL account, unless you fix this issue.
Respectfully,
A disgruntled AOL user!
So I have issues with my email account and that prompted me to write a nasty letter to AOL, only it came out a little too nasty, so I will not send it and instead post it here for your amusement!
Dear AOL Dipshits:
I have been a loyal customer to you for over 10 years and to say that you have served me well would be an absolute lie. I have encountered error after error and plenty of problems with software throughout the years. I have dealt with those issues and your morons at your customer service numbers and have put my feelings aside and have continued to stupidly subscribe to your service.
I am beyond perturbed with the latest issue because it involves my primary email account, an account which happens to be linked to EVERYTHING that involves, work, school, finance and play. It began a few months ago with the random email not sending. Sometimes I would get an error stating that it had not sent and other times I would get nothing and no response from people that I knew would respond, so when I asked those people if they had gotten my email they replied with a no. Again I was irritated to say the least, so I contacted your moronic customer service department and was given the run around for 2 hours by being transferred to “someone that could better assist me.” After a long, long continuous battle with no response I finally gave up, hung up the phone and put the matter aside.
The matter seemed to clear up for a while, my email was sending and I was not getting any errors and now it has started again, only this time not only is the mail not sending but I am getting failure of delivery notices 5 sometimes 6 days after I originally sent the email out. But here is the clinker, people ARE still getting my damned emails even though I am getting notices saying that the delivery of the email failed!! So that prompted me to say WTF and another call to your customer stupid…I mean service department was made!!
Upon calling said customer service I was given the run around, and bounced back and fourth to other areas of the service department. By this time I was dizzy and annoyed at the random transferring of my call, and the Italian side of me came out to play! Yelling ensued and I was finally put through to the head of the customer service department!
I was patched through to a man in India with a very, very strong accent, named Bob. This prompted me to laugh to myself as I know this guy’s name probably wasn’t Bob! We then proceeded to go through what my issue was and then run many checks, none of which worked. He then proceeded to tell me that I needed to restore my AOL software in which I proceeded to tell your customer service goon that this happens on every single computer that I have used. It is not a glitch on my side of the spectrum. Then he proceeded to tell me that it was most likely a spam filter issue, which I could see if I had issues with incoming mail and not outgoing. So he then proceeded to tell me to tinker with my spam filters, so I did. Nothing happened!!! Then he proceeded to tell me to try reinstalling my software anyway, so I did…..NOTHING!!! So he proceeds to tell me that they have experienced this issue before and it is usually a result of the spam filters. So what I am gathering from this situation is that spam filters filter out emails that you, yourself send to other people. Now, I thought spam filters were supposed to be filtering out crap that spammers send to you, not stuff you send out to others, which is kinda the purpose of spam filters, isn’t it? So he then proceeds to tell me that what can happen is the filters become unstable and cause glitches and that is why I was asked to restore my software. I proceeded to tell your goon, that we tried that and it didn’t work!!
Now here is what I don’t get, I know there is a bug in your software because some people who have your service have told me that they experience the same thing, now instead of dragging me through a lengthy problem solving conversation of crap, why not just admit that your software has a glitch and that it will be fixed in the next updated version?
Due to the seriousness of this issue I am seriously considering canceling my AOL account, unless you fix this issue.
Respectfully,
A disgruntled AOL user!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Larry King
Last year this story broke my heart. The murder of an innocent young gay boy by another boy was just... words could never describe how horrible this was. I am going to copy and paste the orignal news story of this incident. The horribleness and hatefulness of this crime is just sickening to me. How a young child of 14 kill another child over sexuailty. It baffles me, saddnes me and angers me. How a parent can teach their child this kind of hate is beyond me. The story is posted below. It is oringaly posted at KTLA.com and can be found at this linkhttp://www.ktla.com/landing_mostinteresting/?DA-Killing-of-Gay-Student-Was-Execution=1&blockID=79812&feedID=1080&iref=werecommend
DA: Killing of Gay Student Was 'Execution'
February 11, 2009
VENTURA -- Court documents reveal the killing of a 15-year-old gay student by a teenage classmate was done execution style, according to prosecutors.
The Ventura County district attorney's office filed the documents in response to an appeal filed by defense attorneys for Brandon McInerney alleging that prosecutors had abused their discretion by charging him as an adult. McInerney is charged with first-degree murder and a hate crime in the February 2008 death of Larry King at E.O. Green School in Oxnard.
King dressed in a feminine manner and told friends he was gay. McInerny was 14 at the time of the shooting and turned 15 last month. In the documents, prosecutors described the shooting of King as a premeditated execution-style murder carried out by a classmate who was a proponent of "racist skinhead philosophy."
According to prosecutors, murder suspect Brandon McInerney sat behind King in a computer lab class on Feb. 12, 2008, didn't do anything for 20 minutes, and then without saying a word fired one shot into the back of King's head.
As the teen collapsed to the floor, McInerney stood up, looked around at his astonished classmates and delivered a "second, coup de grâce" shot into King's head, prosecutors allege. Senior Deputy District Attorney Maeve Fox said the facts of the case "speak volumes" for the decision to try McInerney in adult court. The court documents also give details about the alleged contentious relationship between King and McInerney, the teasing by some classmates because of King's effeminate demeanor and McInerney's unheeded threat to kill King.
DA: Killing of Gay Student Was 'Execution'
February 11, 2009
VENTURA -- Court documents reveal the killing of a 15-year-old gay student by a teenage classmate was done execution style, according to prosecutors.
The Ventura County district attorney's office filed the documents in response to an appeal filed by defense attorneys for Brandon McInerney alleging that prosecutors had abused their discretion by charging him as an adult. McInerney is charged with first-degree murder and a hate crime in the February 2008 death of Larry King at E.O. Green School in Oxnard.
King dressed in a feminine manner and told friends he was gay. McInerny was 14 at the time of the shooting and turned 15 last month. In the documents, prosecutors described the shooting of King as a premeditated execution-style murder carried out by a classmate who was a proponent of "racist skinhead philosophy."
According to prosecutors, murder suspect Brandon McInerney sat behind King in a computer lab class on Feb. 12, 2008, didn't do anything for 20 minutes, and then without saying a word fired one shot into the back of King's head.
As the teen collapsed to the floor, McInerney stood up, looked around at his astonished classmates and delivered a "second, coup de grâce" shot into King's head, prosecutors allege. Senior Deputy District Attorney Maeve Fox said the facts of the case "speak volumes" for the decision to try McInerney in adult court. The court documents also give details about the alleged contentious relationship between King and McInerney, the teasing by some classmates because of King's effeminate demeanor and McInerney's unheeded threat to kill King.
Sam, the Koala
You know as I mentioned before in a previous blog my heart goes out to all my Aussie friends durring this difficult time. This story has been around for a few days now and I just have to post it. It is such a cute and innocent story that just warms my heart and I am such a sap for these things that it just made me cry. The first part is the video of the firefighter helping this poor little Koala out and the second is the love story of the Koala and her newfound boyfriend!
This video is pretty amazing to watch...made me cry! Sap that I am!
Here is the link to the news story Sam, now has a boyfriend!
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20090211/od_uk_nm/oukoe_uk_australia_fires_koala
This video is pretty amazing to watch...made me cry! Sap that I am!
Here is the link to the news story Sam, now has a boyfriend!
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20090211/od_uk_nm/oukoe_uk_australia_fires_koala
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Ellen Degeneres and Josh Groban Belt out a Tune!!
Ellen and Josh sing a duet on Ellen's show. They were pretty fucking awesome!
Monday, February 9, 2009
To All My Austrialian Friends
To all those affected by the wild fires may your lord/higher power be with you durring this horrific time. May he shelter you from this destruction and keep you safe and most of all may he calm these fires.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
~F~
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
~F~
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Heartbreaking Prop 8 video.
Go to this like and watch this heartbreaking video on all those who will be forced to become divored if prop 8 isn't over turned. Pass this video along as well.
http://www.couragecampaign.org/page/s/divorce
~F~
http://www.couragecampaign.org/page/s/divorce
~F~
Here Comes The....
Two of my favorite singers collaborate on a song, performing on my favorite show hosted by my favorite person!!!
P!nk and Butch Walker perform "Here Comes the.." on Ellen!
P!nk is so hot!!!!!
P!nk and Butch Walker perform "Here Comes the.." on Ellen!
P!nk is so hot!!!!!
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
All My Children's Lesbian storylines suck!
The amount of my utter disgust right now is in full force, and I will tell you why in a minute.
First things first I want to caution you on this topic, if you are a fan of the soap opera “All My Children” then please do not read any further as this topic WILL contain SPOILERS!!
If you don’t care about reading spoilers then please, feel free to read on!
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I want to start off by saying that AMC has been a favorite of mine since I was 5 years old. I grew up watching this show with my mom and growing up as a gay kid, I never had anyone to really look up too. Then there came Bianca Montgomery, Erica Kane’s lesbian daughter, and I was one happy camper! But my happiness faded and continues to fade as they progress the character further.
Let me just say, that this will never be an attack on the actress who plays Bianca, Eden Riegel, who I respect and admire as an actress. This blog is indicative to the writers of this once wonderful soap opera.
Eden came onto the scene in 2000, in which her character then proceeded to come out of the closet. She had her first girlfriend, Sarah. Sarah left Bianca for a man. She just decided that she couldn’t be gay went off and got married.
Then there was Frankie! Frankie, loved Bianca, Frankie then cheated on Bianca with JR, then Frankie was killed off!
Then there was Maggie, Maggie was straight, Bianca fell for her, Maggie put Binx in check and told her that they could never be together.
Then there was Lena. Lena came into town sleeping with the man who rapped Bianca, then proceeded to tell Bianca she loved her, then moved to Poland, then broke up with Binx over the phone!!!!
Then there was Maggie again. Maggie, Maggie, Maggie! Maggie was dating an abuse man, Bianca realized that she had always been in love with Maggie, Maggie denied her feelings, Maggie then didn’t deny her feelings, then Maggie denied her feelings again, then she didn’t, then they moved to pairs together, then Maggie cheated on Bianca, then Bianca came back to Pinevalley, Maggie followed, was sorry, Bianca denied that and it was over.
And now there is Reese, Bianca’s fiancé. Reese is now confused about her feelings, she’s in love with Bianca, but has feelings for Bianca Brother in law, Zach! See, now Bianca was suppose to come back and this relationship was suppose to be this ground breaking story and they were suppose to get married, it was suppose to be the first lesbian wedding in daytime, and yada, yada, yada.
GROUND BREAKING STORY MY ASS!!!!!!!
All we have gotten is the same fucking bullshit we always get, that a lesbian relationship can’t be left alone without a man being involved. THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE. In real life Lesbians CAN have fully committed, loving relationships with a person of the same gender and it is not interfered with by a man.
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Here is a wonderful concept for you idiots to grasp. Us lesbians, ARE perfectly CAPABLE of having a FRIENDSHIP with a MAN WITHOUT having any romantic feelings for said man WHATSOEVER!!!! We can just be friends you know. And I don’t know what the hell kind of crap the writers at ABC and AMC are trying to pull, but its offensive!!!! It makes me swear profusely, and upsets me muchly to the point where I have deleted the damn show from my DVR and refuse to watch EVER again!!! Way to go morons! You just lost one viewer, and ill be my left kidney that you will loose more given the fact that the recent spoilers have Reese kissing Zach.
I’m telling you, just once I wish someone would do a lesbian storyline justice. I have loved AMC since I was a little kid I am 26 now, and have sworn it off. Its sad really, made me cry. But I cannot watch a show that promises me, a happy lesbian storyline and then turns it into crap. Every damn girlfriend Bianca had has hurt her over a guy and its pretty disgusting really.
On that sour note, I am going to go.
Goodbye AMC forever this time!
~F~
First things first I want to caution you on this topic, if you are a fan of the soap opera “All My Children” then please do not read any further as this topic WILL contain SPOILERS!!
If you don’t care about reading spoilers then please, feel free to read on!
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I want to start off by saying that AMC has been a favorite of mine since I was 5 years old. I grew up watching this show with my mom and growing up as a gay kid, I never had anyone to really look up too. Then there came Bianca Montgomery, Erica Kane’s lesbian daughter, and I was one happy camper! But my happiness faded and continues to fade as they progress the character further.
Let me just say, that this will never be an attack on the actress who plays Bianca, Eden Riegel, who I respect and admire as an actress. This blog is indicative to the writers of this once wonderful soap opera.
Eden came onto the scene in 2000, in which her character then proceeded to come out of the closet. She had her first girlfriend, Sarah. Sarah left Bianca for a man. She just decided that she couldn’t be gay went off and got married.
Then there was Frankie! Frankie, loved Bianca, Frankie then cheated on Bianca with JR, then Frankie was killed off!
Then there was Maggie, Maggie was straight, Bianca fell for her, Maggie put Binx in check and told her that they could never be together.
Then there was Lena. Lena came into town sleeping with the man who rapped Bianca, then proceeded to tell Bianca she loved her, then moved to Poland, then broke up with Binx over the phone!!!!
Then there was Maggie again. Maggie, Maggie, Maggie! Maggie was dating an abuse man, Bianca realized that she had always been in love with Maggie, Maggie denied her feelings, Maggie then didn’t deny her feelings, then Maggie denied her feelings again, then she didn’t, then they moved to pairs together, then Maggie cheated on Bianca, then Bianca came back to Pinevalley, Maggie followed, was sorry, Bianca denied that and it was over.
And now there is Reese, Bianca’s fiancé. Reese is now confused about her feelings, she’s in love with Bianca, but has feelings for Bianca Brother in law, Zach! See, now Bianca was suppose to come back and this relationship was suppose to be this ground breaking story and they were suppose to get married, it was suppose to be the first lesbian wedding in daytime, and yada, yada, yada.
GROUND BREAKING STORY MY ASS!!!!!!!
All we have gotten is the same fucking bullshit we always get, that a lesbian relationship can’t be left alone without a man being involved. THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE. In real life Lesbians CAN have fully committed, loving relationships with a person of the same gender and it is not interfered with by a man.
AND…..
Here is a wonderful concept for you idiots to grasp. Us lesbians, ARE perfectly CAPABLE of having a FRIENDSHIP with a MAN WITHOUT having any romantic feelings for said man WHATSOEVER!!!! We can just be friends you know. And I don’t know what the hell kind of crap the writers at ABC and AMC are trying to pull, but its offensive!!!! It makes me swear profusely, and upsets me muchly to the point where I have deleted the damn show from my DVR and refuse to watch EVER again!!! Way to go morons! You just lost one viewer, and ill be my left kidney that you will loose more given the fact that the recent spoilers have Reese kissing Zach.
I’m telling you, just once I wish someone would do a lesbian storyline justice. I have loved AMC since I was a little kid I am 26 now, and have sworn it off. Its sad really, made me cry. But I cannot watch a show that promises me, a happy lesbian storyline and then turns it into crap. Every damn girlfriend Bianca had has hurt her over a guy and its pretty disgusting really.
On that sour note, I am going to go.
Goodbye AMC forever this time!
~F~
Sunday, February 1, 2009
Things I look for in a woman!
I was having a conversation on AIM tonight with an old friend I hadn’t talked to in a while. They found me on myspace and we started talking again about life and how much we had changed. She was asking me what it was like to be gay and I said it wasn’t any different than being straight really. I want what every girl wants, happiness, love, a committed relationship, eventually marriage.
She asked me what kind of women I am attracted to and I so I went on to tell her and now I will share that with you.
Number one -Intelligence. Intelligence is the most important factor when I look at women. If you are dumb, or if you are acting dumb, I wont give you the time to spare. I believe that intelligence fules a relationship. I love learning more, and with someone who is willing and wanting to learn, I can do that. I can have conversations that are meaningful instead of discuss if the pair of jeans you are wearing makes your butt look big, and yes, I have had women engage me in that type of conversation. I don’t like it. And besides smart chicks are sooooooooo sexy!
Number Two- Honesty- No need to elaborate on this further.
Number three- Sense of humor- If you cant make me laugh, I don’t wanna be around you. I enjoy people who can make me laugh. Now with everything this does have a limitations. Its one thing to be goofy and wacky at the right place at the right time, but there is also a wrong time. If you cant distinguish the two, it just wont work.
Number Four- Maturity- I don’t want someone who is going to be childish. I prefer nice adult conversations. There is a time and a place to be silly its not all the time!
Number Five- Must Love animals! I seriously believe that if you don’t have the ability to love an animal, there is something wrong with you! I wont even give you the time of day if you don’t love animals
Number Six- Confidence- If you hate yourself. Don’t bother. I don’t want to have to justify my feelings to you all the time because you believe you are ugly. If I say you are beautiful I mean it, don’t argue with me.
Those are the most important, but there are other factors that I look for in women as well. Things like creativity, love of science and nature, a little shyness, adventurous, compassionate.
She asked me if looks matter and to be quite honest, to an extent they do. I have a tendency to be attracted to older, darker skinned, light eyed, dark haired women. But that’s not to say that I will not date outside of that. I have. I mean really in the end what really matters are the qualities I listed above.
In any event I am dead tired, so I am going to head to bed. Have a wonderful Sunday Ya’ll
~F~
She asked me what kind of women I am attracted to and I so I went on to tell her and now I will share that with you.
Number one -Intelligence. Intelligence is the most important factor when I look at women. If you are dumb, or if you are acting dumb, I wont give you the time to spare. I believe that intelligence fules a relationship. I love learning more, and with someone who is willing and wanting to learn, I can do that. I can have conversations that are meaningful instead of discuss if the pair of jeans you are wearing makes your butt look big, and yes, I have had women engage me in that type of conversation. I don’t like it. And besides smart chicks are sooooooooo sexy!
Number Two- Honesty- No need to elaborate on this further.
Number three- Sense of humor- If you cant make me laugh, I don’t wanna be around you. I enjoy people who can make me laugh. Now with everything this does have a limitations. Its one thing to be goofy and wacky at the right place at the right time, but there is also a wrong time. If you cant distinguish the two, it just wont work.
Number Four- Maturity- I don’t want someone who is going to be childish. I prefer nice adult conversations. There is a time and a place to be silly its not all the time!
Number Five- Must Love animals! I seriously believe that if you don’t have the ability to love an animal, there is something wrong with you! I wont even give you the time of day if you don’t love animals
Number Six- Confidence- If you hate yourself. Don’t bother. I don’t want to have to justify my feelings to you all the time because you believe you are ugly. If I say you are beautiful I mean it, don’t argue with me.
Those are the most important, but there are other factors that I look for in women as well. Things like creativity, love of science and nature, a little shyness, adventurous, compassionate.
She asked me if looks matter and to be quite honest, to an extent they do. I have a tendency to be attracted to older, darker skinned, light eyed, dark haired women. But that’s not to say that I will not date outside of that. I have. I mean really in the end what really matters are the qualities I listed above.
In any event I am dead tired, so I am going to head to bed. Have a wonderful Sunday Ya’ll
~F~
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